Growing Up

As a pastor, one of my great passions is to see people mature in their faith, growing in their walk with the Lord and becoming all that God destined them to be.

At a few places in the New Testament this same passion is expressed in terms of moving on from a baby diet of milk to a more mature diet of solid foods. Nobody wants to be a baby forever- except some christians who just consume and never give out.

In Hebrews 5:12-13 we read:

You have been believers so long now that you ought to be teaching others. Instead, you need someone to teach you again the basic things about God’s word. You are like babies who need milk and cannot eat solid food. For someone who lives on milk is still an infant and doesn’t know how to do what is right.

When we just look after our own needs we are acting like a baby. When church is all about me “getting fed”, or the music that I like or a nice message, that is just the milk of faith. You can be a christian conference junkie getting the best Bible teaching week after week, or spend three years at Bible College, and still be a baby, living on milk.

How do we move onto maturity and get the solid food? The writer to Hebrews says it is when we are teaching others. Teaching means passing on knowledge or skills. This does not have to be standing in front of a group of people giving a lecture.

It could mean

  • praying with and for people in a cell group- that’s passing on your knowledge of prayer,
  • helping the leader of your cell group through offering to take responsibility for some part of group life
  • sharing the Good News with your friends
  • being on the maintenance team at church
  • singing or playing an instrument in church or cell group

The amazing thing is that when knowledge is put into action in these ways, we grow immensely because faith was never meant to be kept to ourselves. Church is meant to be a community where everybody brings their gifts and talents and uses them to help others. It was never meant to be a professional performance where the “experts” do it all.

I am often amazed by children in church. You ask them a question about walking with the Lord, and you get the mumbled answers and the standard answers, but then maybe 5% of answers will carry so much wisdom that you gasp and think, “Where did you get that from?” It says in the bible that even a child will lead them. (Isaiah 11:6)

Are you sill on the milk of faith? Are you for ever taking in and never giving out, like the Dead Sea? Or have you seen the power that giving to others actually grows you more than it grows them?

Move on from the milk and the childish ways of doing things.

Mario Murillo: Why Your Deep Frustrations Are A Sign God Will Use You Mightily

WHY YOUR DEEP FRUSTRATIONS ARE A SIGN GOD WILL USE YOU MIGHTILY

We face a new kind of evil.  We have never faced a threat like this before.  That is why God is creating special kinds of people to be used in special kinds of ways.  What do these people look like?

We picture bold, assertive, natural born leaders taking the stage.  We assume the Holy Spirit would instill great confidence and audacity in those He has selected for special service.

In fact, the opposite is true.  He inflicts those He chooses with deep frustrations.  They are restless, they are weakened by confusing emotions.  Often, they don’t feel very spiritual at all.  The greatest gift He gives them is a desperate hunger.

In fact, your deep frustrations are a sign that God is going to use you mightily…because they create desperate hunger.

Yes, desperate hunger is a great gift.  Although, when you first get it, you will be convinced you are being punished not blessed.

Jesus said “blessed are those who hunger and thirst…”  It seems a contradictory statement but a closer look reveals eternal wisdom.  

God is carving out your soul to create a greater capacity for His power.  You are getting desperate for something—your appetite for that one thing is increasing.  It seems cruel but it makes perfect sense: God wants you to want something you can’t have.  It is in the not having it, that your desire intensifies.

The Bible says, “But to Hannah he would give a double portion, for he loved Hannah, although the Lord had closed her womb. And her rival also provoked her severely, to make her miserable, because the Lord had closed her womb.” -1 Samuel 1:5,6

Look at that!  God is creating unbearable frustration.  But, by depriving her of children, it increased two things in her soul: Her willingness to sacrifice and her appreciation for the blessings when they come.  In other words, she will be an amazing example of willingness and appreciation.

God didn’t want Hannah to get over wanting Children.  He wanted her to yearn for them even more.  The end result is one of the most powerful women in history—the mother of Samuel the prophet.  In Jewish tradition, Samuel is second only to Moses as a prophet.

Hannah’s total reward often goes unnoticed.  True, she surrendered her first born to God but it says in 1 Samuel 2: 21 And the Lord visited Hannah, so that she conceived and bore three sons and two daughters. Meanwhile the child Samuel grew before the Lord.”

It was Elisha’s insatiable hunger for the anointing that made him ask for a double portion from Elijah.   Many, of today’s leaders ask for just enough to get by.  They will never destroy the strongholds of Satan.  They fold at the first sign of resistance.  Not so, the vessel born of desperate hunger.  When they finally get their chance, they will never stop, and they will never corrupt their God-given stewardship.  Your frustration and desperate hunger is qualifying you for something astounding.

All of this is well and good but it is not a great comfort when you are in the depths of frustration.  Desperate hunger from God can test us to the maximum.  We look for signs that our hunger will be fulfilled.  We yearn for proof that we will not die from disappointment.  Well beloved, the proof is right under our nose.  In fact, the hunger itself is the proof of the fulfillment.

Jesus said, Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness for they shall be filled.”-Matthew 5:5  In other words, if you hunger, you are blessed because that is the proof you shall be filled.

Alexander MacLaren the great Bible Commentator said this, “that hunger is the sure precursor and infallible prophet of the coming satisfaction.”

Oswald Chambers: Can You Come Down From The Mountain?

Can You Come Down From the Mountain?

Can You Come Down From the Mountain?
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We all have moments when we feel better than ever before, and we say, “I feel fit for anything; if only I could always be like this!” We are not meant to be. Those moments are moments of insight which we have to live up to even when we do not feel like it. Many of us are no good for the everyday world when we are not on the mountaintop. Yet we must bring our everyday life up to the standard revealed to us on the mountaintop when we were there.

Never allow a feeling that was awakened in you on the mountaintop to evaporate. Don’t place yourself on the shelf by thinking, “How great to be in such a wonderful state of mind!” Act immediately— do something, even if your only reason to act is that you would rather not. If, during a prayer meeting, God shows you something to do, don’t say, “I’ll do it”— just do it! Pick yourself up by the back of the neck and shake off your fleshly laziness. Laziness can always be seen in our cravings for a mountaintop experience; all we talk about is our planning for our time on the mountain. We must learn to live in the ordinary “gray” day according to what we saw on the mountain.

Don’t give up because you have been blocked and confused once— go after it again. Burn your bridges behind you, and stand committed to God by an act of your own will. Never change your decisions, but be sure to make your decisions in the light of what you saw and learned on the mountain.

From “My Utmost For His Highest” utmost.org