Stephen McAlpine: Australia Is Coming Apart: The Church Can Point a Way Forward.

Stephen McAlpine writes:

Australia Is Coming Apart: The Church Can Point a Way Forward.

This past Sunday at church I watched as an elderly man – a long time member – walked into church and went to the front row. I won’t name him, but it would be fair to say that life has not been easy for him. He’s had his fair share of struggles. He’s generally not someone who is going to be in the photographs on the front page of your church’s website. Okay, switch out the word “generally” in that last sentence and that’s probably more accurate.

Afterwards over coffee we all had the usual chatting and talking and encouraging, and he too was in that mix. Eventually everyone packs up and we all leave (Jill and I always seem to be there until they turn out the lights – one of us is a chatterbox, but who can tell which one!)

But as this bloke said hello to a few people, raised a hand in greeting, and as a couple of people responded before he sat down just before having to stand up again as we began to sing, it struck me once again what a magnificent thing the church is.  Where else?

Where else is there such a levelling of people. Or indeed such a raising up? I have not seen it anywhere else.  It does not exist anywhere else. Indeed our rector over coffee a day or so later was observing that in the other communities to which he belongs – those outside the people of faith – there is much talk about togetherness and community. Many ideas about fairness and equality. But talk and ideas are not the same as tangible proof.

Where else? It simply does not exist. Not in the long term.  And I’ve seen this over and over again. I recall one complex character, loveable, smart, loud and pretty broken, and who could use up a lot of your time (and did when life got bad). A parishioner said to me

I am going to treat him in such a way that in the New Creation I won’t look back in shame or embarrassment at how I acted towards him.

Naturally we baulk at that because we think that we are more noble than that. We think that we are more innately good than that. We think that others might behave poorly towards such a person, but not I. Not magnanimous I!

Piffle. You are not magnanimous. You just are not.

Humans are tribal, self-selecting in their relationships, mistrustful of anyone not like them enough, and determined to be the birds who stick together with those whose feathers they recognise as their own.

It is only the gospel of Jesus, nay, Jesus himself who both compels and empowers us to be any different.  When James writes to Christ followers – mostly Jewish converts – he leans into our inability in our own flesh to be welcoming to the stranger. And by stranger I don’t mean someone we don’t know, I mean someone we don’t want to know. Someone who might be a risk to our time and attention and energy.

You see, people who are like us, share our values, our social status, our educational standards etc, they are not strangers to us, even if they come into church new. Yes of course we don’t know them, but we’re pretty quick to change that. We lean into them.

Other types? Not so much. We lean away.

That’s why James has to say this:

My brothers, show no partiality as you hold the faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of glory. For if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes in,and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, “You sit here in a good place,” while you say to the poor man, “You stand over there,” or, “Sit down at my feet,” have you not then made distinctions among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?

We recognise that in ourselves don’t we? But notice that James’ first call is not to lean into the humility of Jesus as a reason to show no partiality, but rather the glory. And the fact that he has to state this so clearly in the very first generation of the church, demonstrates that it is counter intuitive.

James then goes on to say that the strangeness of God – certainly strangeness in terms of the gods of the Roman Empire of their day – is that he chooses the very things that the culture despises. And that the culture assumes that the gods would despise:

Listen, my beloved brothers, has not God chosen those who are poor in the world to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom, which he has promised to those who love him?

In this one verse James flips the script and shows that God is the role reverser.  And that has always been the case when salvation is on the table.  It was the case for Hannah prior to the birth of Samuel when she prays:

The Lord makes poor and makes rich;
    he brings low and he exalts.
He raises up the poor from the dust;
    he lifts the needy from the ash heap
to make them sit with princes
    and inherit a seat of honor.
For the pillars of the earth are the Lord‘s,
    and on them he has set the world.

Words that are echoed in the Magnificat centuries later by Mary.  And note that last verse, it is because God is in control that such reversals occur. This is not saying that God cares for the weak because he is weak, but precisely because he is strong. He rescues the poor because he is rich. The one who has no need lifts up the needy.

You can imagine receiving James’ letter. You can imagine being a small, insignificant group of people, on the fringes of the culture, both as Jewish people and as Jewish people who have decided that Jesus is Messiah. Yet you cannot imagine that that role reversal, that script flipping, would become the very power that swept away the Roman idea of power (or at least put a hand up to stay it over the centuries).

Four months ago I wrote a blog post called Australia Is Coming Apart. In it I said this:

if Australia – and indeed the West – is to avoid the devastation of coming apart, we will need some priests of history, as Associate Professor at Australian Catholic University, Sarah Irving Stonebraker, puts it. If anyone has a remit to hand on the baton of the truth, to rightly divide the word of truth, and to speak truth to a fractured and fractious world in which competing visions of reality are tearing us apart, then the church certainly has that remit.

I was promptly poo-pooed by another Christian leader online about the idea that we are coming apart as a nation, who said it’s still great place to live. Sure, by certain indices in certain places it is. Ironically, the offline conversation that ensued led to a social media unfriending. We came apart.

Even more ironically the next day Charlie Kirk was murdered, which exposed huge faultiness in belief and values not just across Australians, but within the church.. And not three months later the Bondi massacre. The division, unrest and indeed the hatred is only going to increase.

There was a short show of unity before it all came crumbling down again. We are not going to “Kumbaya ourselves out of this one, don’t kid yourself that we are.

And we’ve all got something to say. We are all cultural and geo-political experts suddenly. We all have a view of Venezuela even though we don’t know any Venezuelans and couldn’t point it out on a map, and have no clue why their oil is different to the oil that the Saudis have. Yet we all have something to say.

I don’t want us all to turn inwards. There is work to be done socially and politically. I don’t want evangelicals to retreat to quietism, much less only focus on church.

I don’t think we’ve been given a mandate to do that. I think we’ve been given a mandate to both preach the gospel AND to shape the world for good in the public square through our gifts, talents and experiences even in the culture’s fallen state. I also think my own tribe in Australia the past thirty years hasn’t been at the forefront of that public task and is playing catch up.

Yet at the same time, I return to that scene I saw on Sunday morning at church and I think “Wow! Where else?” Yet at the same time I lament as I experience – and listen to – a disturbing number of relational schisms, outright ungodly behaviour and frantic attempts to cover it us, among our self-declared theological finest.

If the events of the past three to four months have disturbed us, then you can imagine how disturbing they are to those without hope and without God in the world. The cultural, political and social spasms of the past couple of years is exactly why we are seeing the Quiet Revival. It’s exactly why we are seeing “full fat faith” among previously secular young people.

How should we prepare for such eventualities? Tidy up our church grounds? Get our “Ms” in place? Ensure we have our staff teams and vision sorted? Sure, why not. But perhaps a cursory read of the Book of James might be a place to start. And then to ask ourselves, how are we going to flip the increasing crazy and disturbing cultural, political and social script we are witnessing today?

How are we bringing people together at the very time that society is pushing them apart.

Remember That Harmless Vaccine They Made You Take?

From vigilantfox.com

STUDY: Pfizer mRNA Found in Over 88% of Human Placentas, Sperm & Blood — 50% of Unvaccinated Pregnant Women

This is the clearest evidence to date that the COVID injection does not degrade “within hours.” The implications are enormous.

Dec 05, 2025

This article originally appeared on Focal Points and was republished with permission.

Guest post by Nicolas Hulscher, MPH

Human biodistribution study shows Pfizer mRNA penetrates fetal and reproductive tissues, persists long-term in the body, and presents clear evidence of shedding.

For years, the public was told a simple story: the mRNA “stays in the arm,” degrades within hours, never enters the bloodstream, never crosses the placenta, never reaches the reproductive system, and certainly cannot be shed or transferred to others. These claims were repeated endlessly by agencies, fact-checkers, news outlets, and medical institutions, despite the fact that no long-term human biodistribution studies had ever been performed.

A new peer-reviewed study published in Annals of Case Reports titled, Detection of Pfizer BioNTech Messenger RNA COVID-19 Vaccine in Human Blood, Placenta and Semenends that narrative.

Researchers from Bar-Ilan University and several Israeli medical centers used nested PCR combined with Sanger sequencing—a far more sensitive and specific method than the standard qPCR used in earlier studies—to test for Pfizer mRNA in human tissues from 34 participants, including 22 pregnant women, 4 male sperm donors (8 samples), and 8 additional adults.

Their findings are deeply worrisome: 88% of pregnant women vaccinated within the last 100 days showed detectable Pfizer mRNA in both blood and placental tissue. Among male sperm donors, 100% of those who produced sperm had vaccine mRNA in their sperm cells, and 50% had it detectable in seminal fluid—long after vaccination.

Even more concerning, Pfizer mRNA was detected in 50% of the unvaccinated women tested —two in both placenta and blood, and one in blood alone; a result that forces the scientific community to confront the reality of shedding, something officials categorically deny.

Most striking of all, mRNA was still present in 50% of individuals more than 200 days after injection.

Read the rest of the article here

Get rich- ride a bike!

Earning more, eating better and environmentally resilient: the impact of the bicycle in the developing world shown in new studySchool children cycle to school in Africa (credit: World Bicycle Relief)

From road.cc

Earning more, eating better and environmentally resilient: the impact of the bicycle in the developing world shown in new study

A two-year study from the World Bicycle Relief charity showed significant returns on investment and the bike’s power as a “catalytic tool”…

by Callum Devereux

Wed, Dec 03, 2025 11:19

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The distribution of bicycles in Zambia, as part of a recent study, significantly enhanced the life outcomes of its participants.

The trial involved more than 1400 participants, including around 200 community health workers, and was held in Zambia’s rural Mumbwa District, west of the capital city of Lusaka. The study found that when adults gained access to bicycles –and were supported with trained mechanics and spare parts – the improvements were clear.

The two year randomised controlled trial began in 2023 and included Zambia’s most severe drought in decades. But the study showed that households with bicycles were found to have better food security and maintained higher incomes whereas households without bicycles experienced a marked drop in overall living standards.

As seen in the developed world, bicycle users were also found to rely significantly less on motorised transport and experienced productivity gains compared to those without.

Dave Neiswander, CEO of the World Bicycle Relief charity that distributed the bicycles and commissioned the study, said that the results showed the bicycle can be “a catalytic tool” which “gives people back their time, connects them to opportunity, and builds resilience that endures beyond crisis.”

Healthcare worker cycling in AfricaHealthcare worker cycling in Africa (credit: Mana Meadows/World Bicycle Relief)

Nearly 70 percent of participants were women, with the study also examining social mobility and life satisfaction. After one year, women who received bicycles were found to have increased their life satisfaction by 11% compared to the control group who were not provided with bicycles, which WBR describe as “leading to greater self-esteem and decision-making power within households”.

After two years, women with bicycles were found to generate 43 percent more in monthly business revenue than women without.

Over the course of the study, WBR estimate that for every £1 invested in bicycle provision, it amounts to a return on investment of £14.70, measured not only in increased household incomes, but also higher rates of school attendance, and increased accessibility of healthcare.

IDinsight’s Junior Economist Kashif Ahmed, who produced the report on behalf of the WBR and analysed the findings, said “A nearly 15-to-1 return on investment places bicycles alongside the most impactful anti-poverty programs, delivering lasting social and economic benefits at a fraction of the cost.

“For policymakers and funders seeking scalable, evidence-based approaches, bicycles represent a proven, high-value solution.”

It’s not the first time that the bicycle has been seen as a key tool of social mobility, and the findings have also been echoed in the UK.

> Free bike schemes in deprived communities improve people’s health, wellbeing and social mobility, report shows

A Sport England-commissioned report last month found that the trial of distributing bikes for free in the most deprived areas of the country substantially improved people’s health, wellbeing and social mobility.

That study, endorsed by the Active Wellbeing Society, found an economic return of investment of £11.80 for every £1. Those trials also included “wraparound support” of bike lessons, maintenance and group rides free of charge.

An American Theme Park Tells the Christmas Story

From godreports.com

Snoopy ice show at Knott’s: A Christ-centered moment brings wild applause


By Mark Ellis —

Scene from ice show (sixflags.com)

As the sun dipped low over Buena Park, my wife Sally noticed a long line of people forming outside the Walter Knott Theater for the latest production of “Snoopy’s Night Before Christmas.”

We jumped in line with our son and daughter-in-law and two granddaughters, with low expectations for a free, ice-skating Peanuts show in a secular theme park.

Within minutes my heart was overflowing with delight, not only because of the spectacular skating, but also its meaningful content.

In an age when many Christmas productions tiptoe around the real reason for the season, Knott’s has done something courageous: they’ve let Linus take center stage and quote the Gospel of Luke verbatim, exactly as he did in the immortal 1965 TV special, A Charlie Brown Christmas.

Under the skilled direction of the incomparable ice show team at Knott’s, the Peanuts gang glides across the 5,000-square-foot Royal Welcome Ice Stage in a delightful retelling of Clement Clarke Moore’s famous poem. Snoopy dreams of sugarplums (and perhaps a certain Red Baron), Woodstock flits about in panic, Charlie Brown frets over Christmas meaning something more than commercial fuss, and Sally still wants “tens and twenties.” It’s all charming, funny, and impressively skated.

Scene from 2024 show (YouTube screenshot)

But then came the moment that may have caught many by surprise in the audience, including my wife and me.

The lights dimmed. Linus, wrapped in his trademark blue blanket, skated to the center of the rink with the same quiet confidence millions of us remember from childhood. The orchestra fell silent. And in his gentle, endearing voice he proclaims:

“And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night. And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid…”

Word for word. Luke 2:8-14, King James Version, just as Charles Schulz insisted on 60 years ago when network executives tried to cut it from A Charlie Brown Christmas.

In 2025, in a major American theme park, with thousands of families from every background watching, Linus finishes with the line that has brought tears to generations: “And that’s what Christmas is all about, Charlie Brown.”

The audience erupted in wild applause — the biggest response of the evening. In an era when the meaning of Christmas is obscured, here was a humble beagle and his blanket-carrying friend declaring the story of Christmas without apology, the Scripture undiluted, without a single content warning.

Linus recites from Luke 2 in 2024 show (YouTube screenshot)

The decision to include Linus quoting the Gospel of Luke verbatim comes from the creative team at Knott’s Berry Farm (specifically the entertainment division under Cedar Fair/Six Flags) in collaboration with Peanuts Worldwide LLC, the company that now owns and licenses the Peanuts intellectual property.

However, that scene is a loving and deliberate homage to Schulz’s original insistence in 1965. When CBS executives tried to remove Linus’s recitation of Scripture from A Charlie Brown Christmas, Schulz famously replied, “If we don’t tell the true meaning of Christmas, who will?” and refused to budge.

Because that moment is now considered inseparable from the Peanuts legacy—and is protected as a core element of the brand—modern licensed Peanuts Christmas productions (including the Knott’s ice show, the stage musical, and some theme-park parades) almost always retain the Luke 2 reading when Linus appears in a Christmas context.

The rest of the show features spectacular spins, lifts, and jumps set to arrangements of Peanuts classics, with Snoopy stealing many scenes. Yet everything circles back to that sacred midpoint. The skating is world-class (several performers have Olympic and Disney on Ice credentials), the costumes sparkle under the colored lights, and the storytelling is tight—perfect for families with short attention spans.

When the finale arrived and snow gently fell inside the open-air theater, I found myself thanking God for Charles Schulz, a devout Christian who refused to let the networks remove the Scripture from his special, and now, decades later, for Knott’s Berry Farm choosing to honor that same conviction.

While Schulz himself had no hand in the current Knott’s production (he died 24 years before the current version opened), the inclusion of the biblical Christmas story is a direct result of the stand he took six decades ago.

“Snoopy’s Night Before Christmas” is a bright, unashamed proclamation that Jesus is still the heart of the Christmas message. Bring your kids and grandkids and let Linus point them that enduring truth.

Exposing the ‘shameful silence’ of pro-Palestinian activists

From God Reports

By Charles Gardner —

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The shocking hypocrisy of left-wing posturing over the supposed evils of Israel in their dealings with Palestinians has been brilliantly exposed in a major Daily Mail(1) article.

In a feature titled ‘Shameful Silence of the Left’, David Patrikarakos highlighted the terrible atrocities carried out by Islamic groups in Sudan and Nigeria involving the brutal massacre of numbers far in excess of those reputed to have died in the recent Gaza conflict.

And yet the progressive left is strangely silent over the plight of the victims who are – in the main – Christian.

Tragedies calling for outrage among the left, he writes, “must provide a villain who flatters Western fantasies of resistance – ideally a white, Western or Jewish oppressor – and a victim that appeals to our sense of colonial guilt.”

He continues: “Trendy urban baristas don’t get to feel like freedom fighters by bellowing about African killers or Arab militias. There is no moral glamour in calling out crimes that cannot be laid at the feet of the West.”

Their outrage is not universal, he adds. “It is selective – and therefore hollow.”
He points to the case of a Sudanese rebel fighter who confronted an unarmed restaurant owner. When asked what tribe he belonged to, the man replied that he was from the non-Arab Berti tribe.

At this, ignoring his desperate pleas for mercy, he was shot dead. The same man also ordered the shooting in cold blood of 460 hospital workers, including patients, their companions and anyone else present.

Meanwhile Nigeria is being torn apart by overlapping conflicts that together have produced a body count that amounts to a multiple of Gaza’s death toll over the past decade.

In 2023, he writes, over 5,000 Nigerian Christians were murdered for their faith. And yet, in the West, it still barely registers. It is in fact a blind-spot of the Western conscience.

“Until Sudan and Nigeria fill our streets with the same fury the activists reserve for Gaza, their outrage will remain a performance – and the bodies of black Africans will continue to be buried in silence.”

But thankfully the unfolding genocide in Nigeria has been thrown into the spotlight by none other than U.S. President Donald Trump, threatening possible action against Islamic militant groups.

“At least it shows he cares, which is more than can be said for most of those whose lives seem devoted to relentless displays of public sanctimony.”

We do not need a Great Awokening, as a new book by Martin Charlesworth has been aptly titled. We need another Great Awakening to the reality of God in our midst, of his judgment and mercy, and of his beloved Son, our Lord Jesus Christ.

Data Consistently Shows Getting Married, Having Kids is Good for Mental Health

From lifenews.com

As data continues to show that young people are reporting increasing rates of despair, experts say that a renewed focus on the happiness that marriage, raising children, and church attendance bring can help reverse the trend.

New statistical analysis published earlier this month revealed some sobering facts, including the overall trend that unhappiness is peaking among the young (those aged 18-24) and then declining with age in 44 countries, including the U.S. and the U.K. Particularly in the U.S. over the last roughly quarter century, the rate of young people who say they are in despair (defined as those who say their mental health was not good for the last 30 consecutive days) has risen sharply. For men, it has more than doubled since 1993, rising from 2.5% to 6.6% in 2024. For women, the outlook is even more dire, almost tripling from 3.2% to 9.3%.

As to the causes behind the rising rates of despair among the young, analysis authors Alex Bryson (professor of Quantitative Social Science, UCL), David Blanchflower (professor of Economics, Dartmouth College), and Xiaowei Xu (senior research economist, Institute for Fiscal Studies) say that research into the reasons behind the surge remain “inconclusive,” while acknowledging that excessive screen time is likely a “contributory factor.”

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But sociologists like Brad Wilcox, a professor at the University of Virginia and a senior fellow at the Institute for Family Studies, say that the cultural deemphasis and ridicule of marriage and family life is likely a prime culprit in the surging rates of unhappiness among the young. As he wrote Monday, “Data consistently show that marriage and children confer compounding benefits to both men and women. Married men and women ages 25 to 55 are almost twice as likely to report they are ‘very happy’ with their life than their unmarried peers, according to the 2022 General Social Survey.” In addition, “Married people enjoy more financial stability and better emotional and physical health outcomes.”

Wilcox went on to observe that data from a recent survey of 3,000 American women revealed that “married mothers are among the happiest in the country,” reporting “less loneliness, more physical touch and deeper meaning and connection in their relationships than their unmarried and childless peers.”

As for men, Wilcox noted a theme particularly keyed in on by the late Charlie Kirk, who Wilcox credits with ushering in a new era of popular acceptance of marriage and family among young men, who crave a mission, “grounding their lives in responsibility and meaning in something bigger than themselves.” Wilcox pointed to a recent NBC survey, which found that young men who voted for Donald Trump in the 2024 election ranked “having children” as “the highest marker of personal success, followed by financial independence, a good job and marriage.”

In an Instagram post shortly before his death, Kirk wrote, “Having a family will change your life in the best ways, so get married and have kids. You won’t regret it.”

Wilcox also highlighted a speech that Kirk gave at a church, where he emphasized church attendance as the third key element to giving meaning to the lives of young men alongside marriage and raising children. “What young people are screaming is, they say, ‘Give me a structure that I can live my life by,’” Kirk remarked. “Especially young men … [they want] more saying, ‘Stop being a boy and become a man.’”

There are, in fact, indications that Millennials and Generation Z are leading the charge in a new surge in church attendance. According to recent research from Barna Group, Gen Zers now lead older generations in church attendance, averaging 1.9 weekends per month. Millennials are a close second, with an average of 1.8 weekends per month. Barna’s report notes that these numbers represent “a steady upward shift since the lows seen during the pandemic” and “are easily the highest rates of church attendance among young Christians since they first hit Barna’s tracking.”

This upward shift in church attendance among the young could mark a turning point in the dire mental health data that continues to surface. Research shows that those who attend church regularly report higher rates of happiness and civic engagement than those who are religiously unaffiliated or are inactive members of religious groups.

Still, it remains to be seen whether surveys indicating renewed interest in having children among young men will translate into more marriages and more children, with both marriage and fertility rates currently at or near record lows. The jury is also out on whether young people who are newly attending church will become church members for the long haul.

“Discipleship is absolutely essential,” Family Research Council’s David Closson told The Washington Stand earlier this month. “Jesus’s Great Commission was not simply to make converts but to ‘make disciples’ — to teach people to obey everything He commanded.” It’s good to see young people returning to church, Closson noted, but “that’s only the beginning.”

Katy Faust: The parenting study that should have stopped gay marriage

In 2012, a bombshell study was published that should have changed everything. It was rigorous, national in scope, peer-reviewed, and its findings were clear: children do best when raised by their married mother and father. In any other context, such a conclusion should’ve helped shape public policy and cultural consensus. But because the study threatened to halt the march toward same-sex marriage, progressive forces moved swiftly, not to debate it, but to destroy it.

The study in question was the New Family Structures Study (NFSS), led by sociologist Mark Regnerus. It asked a simple question: how do children fare when raised by a same-sex couple household? The answers were sobering. Across dozens of indicators, emotional health, education, income, and relationship quality, those raised in homes with same-sex parents fared worse than those raised by their married biological parents. And this wasn’t anecdotal or cherry-picked. It was the largest such study ever conducted, with over 3,000 participants and a design meant to capture young adults’ retrospective accounts of their upbringing—not parents’ self-reporting.

To understand why this study was so threatening, you have to understand what was at stake. One of the major legal and cultural arguments against redefining marriage was grounded in child welfare. If children do best with their mother and father, then laws privileging that structure aren’t hateful, they’re rational and legitimate. They exist not to punish adults, but to protect children. The link between marriage and child well-being was strong, and advocates for same-sex marriage knew it.

So they set out to sever that link.

In the years leading up to and following Obergefell, a tidal wave of studies emerged—many with tiny sample sizes and design flaws—claiming there were “no differences” in outcomes for children raised by same-sex couples. The media, academia, and courts largely accepted these claims without question, often attacking anyone who suggested otherwise. The Regnerus study broke that narrative and was met with coordinated outrage.

His critics leveled a common charge: the comparison group was unfair. Regnerus had compared children of stable, married heterosexual parents to those who’d had a parent in a same-sex relationship—but many of those same-sex households, they argued, were unstable or formed after a divorce. That critique has some validity, but it also misses a massive point. Same-sex parenting, by design, involves severing a child from one of their biological parents. Whether through divorce, surrogacy, sperm donation, or adoption, a child is raised by adults who are not both their mother and father. That loss matters. And the data suggests it hurts.

Even in scenarios where a same-sex couple raises a child from infancy, the structure itself requires an intentional rupture, either the absence of a mother or a father. And while adoption also involves separation, best practices in adoption recognize and validate that loss. In contrast, same-sex family formation is celebrated, subsidized, and socially affirmed, often without any acknowledgment of the child’s biological disconnection.

Relationship stability matters, too. Even in “stable” same-sex unions, studies have shown higher levels of relational churn and open relationship dynamics compared to heterosexual marriages. And family instability (especially romantic or residential turnover) is one of the strongest predictors of poor child outcomes. When kids experience constant change in who’s parenting them, where they live, and what home means, they suffer.

All of this was already clear in the original NFSS data. But just in case the skeptics weren’t convinced, something remarkable happened recently. In 2023, researchers conducted a multiverse analysis of the Regnerus data, running it through 248 different statistical models to see if the original findings held up. The result? Across every single model, children raised by parents who had same-sex relationships experienced worse outcomes. The “LGBT-parent effect” persisted, regardless of assumptions, controls, or coding differences. Regnerus’ work was completely vilified but now completely vindicated.

That should have been front-page news. But it wasn’t, because the truth is inconvenient.

We all know (intuitively, biologically, spiritually) that children long for both their mother and father. No amount of academic theory or legal redefinition can erase that basic human longing. And no amount of cultural pressure can make it disappear.

We’ve normalized every alternative. We’ve shouted down dissenters. We’ve demanded that reality conform to ideology. But children don’t lie. They remember. They know who’s missing.

It’s not bigotry to say that kids deserve both their mom and dad. It’s not hateful to acknowledge that certain family forms are better for children. It’s love that tells the truth. And the truth is this: no matter how many policies or pronouns change, biology still matters. Mothers and fathers still matter.

Why We Fight: Restoring Marriage for the Sake of Children

At Them Before Us, we defend a child’s right to their mother and father—in law and policy, with technology, and in culture. While the world centers adult desires, we center the rights, needs, and voices of children.

That’s why we’re fighting for the restoration of marriage—not as a lifestyle preference, but as a child-protective institution. Marriage isn’t about affirming adult relationships; it’s about safeguarding the child’s fundamental right to be raised by their mother and father. When we redefine marriage to suit adult wants, we sever the biological bonds children crave (all while calling it progress).

The Supreme Court’s Obergefell decision in 2015 was more than a legal shift. It was an injustice to children. By eliminating the state’s interest in promoting mother-father homes, it elevated adult satisfaction above child security. We won’t stand by in silence.

That’s why we launched EndObergefell.com—to gather those who believe marriage must once again serve the well-being of children, not the desires of adults. If you care about truth, justice, and children, now is the time to speak.

Because biology still matters. Mothers and fathers still matter. And children are worth fighting for.

Major Study Shows Abortion Pill Is Dangerous To Women

Close up shot of smiling woman holding capsule pill and glass of water. Image focused on capsule

From Heart Beat International

A major new study confirms what we see every day: the abortion pill is dangerous for women.

The Ethics and Public Policy Center (EPPC) issued a groundbreaking report today that shows more than 1 in 10 women (10.9%) experienced serious adverse events for chemical abortion—not less than 0.5% as claimed on the mifepristone label. 

That’s 22 times higher than the rate reported in clinical trials cited by the FDA.

These events include serious complications like sepsis, hemorrhaging, infection, hospitalization, and even surgery.

Here’s what you need to know:

  • There is an official report that proves chemical abortion is not “safe and effective” as advertised.
  • FDA safeguards have been weakened over the years, allowing abortion pills through telehealth and mail without proper oversight. We now have even more evidence that these removed protections are necessary and must be restored (at minimum).
  • Our role is critical—women deserve real options, real care, and real hope.

Read the Report

Meanwhile, California and New York are suing to stop Heartbeat International and pregnancy help organizations from telling women that Abortion Pill Reversal is “safe and effective.” Now with real-world data, we can show even more clearly that the real danger lies with chemical abortion itself—not with the safe, natural progesterone treatment we offer.

What You Can Do:
Educate your staff about the risks of the abortion pill (use the 10.93% figure noted in the report). 
Talk with your clients about the full truth—chemical abortion can cause serious harm.
Promote APRN confidently—women have the right to know they can seek help to save their pregnancies.
Share this reportEPPC.org/publication/stop-harming-women

Bottom line: Women deserve better—and we are here to offer it.